Our community

A quiet place where people carry hard things together. A few gentle agreements keep it that way. They apply to shared posts, memories, replies, gifts and private messages.

Be gentle.

Everyone here is carrying something. Read slowly and answer softly.

Listen first.

No advice unless someone asks for it. Often “I’m holding this with you” is enough.

Keep it here.

No contact details, links or requests for money. Never send money, gift cards or codes to anyone you meet here.

No hate or harassment.

No cruelty, threats, sexual content or pressure, ever. Younger members are here too.

Warn before graphic detail.

If you share something graphic, start with a content warning (for example “CW: hospital”) so others can choose.

Report what feels wrong.

Reports are private and our team reads every one. You can always block someone.

We’re peers, not therapists.

We can listen, but we can’t keep anyone safe in an emergency. If you or someone here might be in danger, reach a crisis line.

Ages 13 and up

Unsaid Feelings is for people 13 and older. Members aged 13 to 17 can use everything, and friends and private messages only connect people in the same age group. If you’re under 18, we encourage you to tell a parent or trusted adult you’re using it.

If you need someone now

In the US and Canada, call or text 988 any time. Anywhere else, findahelpline.com lists free helplines. If someone is in immediate danger, call your local emergency number.

When guidelines are broken we may hide posts, replies or messages, pause someone’s access to the community, or close an account. See our Terms of Service for the details.